“After 10 years of being married, one would think the transition would be easy, but the truth is, it was the hardest part of our marriage. It took work for us to find ourselves within our new roles as parents and continue to grow as a couple. I’m not ashamed to say it! Some think it should have been easy, some think it should have came naturally, but the truth was we required help. My message to others is to not be afraid to need help. Every struggle in your life has shaped you into the person that you are today. Be thankful for the hard times because they only make you stronger. Having our child has made us stronger and has solidified our commitment to one another and our family.”