“I had my son via emergency c section. Being a high risk pregnancy I had assumed a C section was in my future, but I had been cleared for vaginal delivery. My son had other plans. I don’t hate my scar, as I’ve got a scar from heart surgery as well. I consider it a part of my collection. I do wish I would have been able to experience vaginal birth, however. I wonder what labor feels like, what it feels like to push the child you’ve carried into this world. To know it is up to you to get them through this.”